not the happiest person right now >.>
Not happy with a certain set of parents. Wrote a very angry note about it on Facebook
Here's what went down:
So, my boyfriend and I are supposed to go to NASCAR with his family this week (we'd be leaving tomorrow.) But last weekend his family was in Grand Bend and he wanted to come over because my cousins were down (One from Texas who I havent seen since I was 4) and he wanted to meet them. So he called to ask his parents if he could come over and they said
"No, you've already spent two weeks with her and you're going to be spending another week with her, you dont need to spend anymore time together."
and he replied with "But its a family thing. Her cousins from Texas who she never sees are down, I want to meet them cuz I may never get to see them again."
and to this his Mom said "This conversations getting too long. bye" and hung up.
(Rather immature if you ask me, avoiding the issue.)
However he told them instead he was just going to go to a friends house and came to my place instead. So he was here for the night, got to meet all my cousins and had his brother cover for him at home. Well when his parents came home they found out that he actually went to my place, and JUST because of that, they decided that I can no longer go to NASCAR.
Meanwhile, I just got back from my cottage which we go to for two weeks. But I only went for one this year so I could go to NASCAR the second week. Well my parents stayed at the cottage and only let me come home entrusting that his parents would be taking me to NASCAR with them and that they would be in charge of me for the week! I'm not even supposed to be here! My parents dont want me home for this second week when I cant drive because then I cant get anywhere if I have the need to.
Anyways, ontop of all this I also slept over at his house the night before when neither of our parents were home and we got caught for that too. And now his parents (mostly his Mom) are throwing around all these groundless accusations about how
he must have drank when he was over here to meet my cousins (even though he didnt, cuz he had to drive, but they dont believe him)
and how we MUST have had sex since we were alone (I cant fit a frikin tampon in >.> )
and she incinuated that he does drugs as well.
Its absolutely ridiculous and I personally feel his parents are being
1) Irresponsible by not taking me to the race, since this has been planned and my parents entrusted them with being in charge of me
2) absolutely ridiculous for throwing around groundless claims that they're just assuming. and
3) extremely stupid for some of the stuff they're thinking.
They think that my brother will be mad at me for lying to him about going to sleep over at his house -> he doesnt give a flying fuck.
They think that my parents will agree with they're punishment of me not going to the race JUST BECAUSE he came over Saturday (not because I slept over, just because he came to meet my cousins) -> they will NOT be impressed AT ALL.
And they expect my parents to punish me like they're punishing my boyfriend -> what can they do? I mean really.
And, his little brother got in trouble for covering for him while he was at my house on Saturday. Thats if you can call it trouble. It sounds like his parents basically said "Oh you're in trouble too!" and then did nothing. Because the little brother got nothing taken away from him or anything. That family plays favourites because his little brother is seen as the angel of the family meanwhile my boyfriend is just seen as the rotten teenager. Its absolutely ridiculous.
So basically.
I'm not a fan .. at all, of my boyfriends parents anymore and I really just wanna tell them to go fuck themselves.
